Be A World-Changer: Next Steps

I remember the day we brought our newborn son – our first child – home from the hospital. Both sets of grandparents were there to greet their first grandchild. The grandmas took turns holding their grandson; the grandpas were more uncertain.

Eventually we put our son in his crib and said goodbye to the grandparents. Left alone my late wife and I went to the baby’s room and peeked in on our baby boy. Soon we headed to the living room, sat down on the couch, and savored the moment. Then I turned to her and said, “OK. Now what do we do?”

For nine months we had prepared for our son’s arrival, but now he was here – and reality set in. We were totally responsible for our son – day in and day out. As first-time parents, we were overwhelmed by the enormity of the task, but somehow we survived – and so did our son.

This story is an analogy for what happens when God reveals your calling to you. For quite a while you’ve been praying for God’s guidance. You’ve talked to loved ones for their perspective. You took time to examine your life story.

One day God summons you and you hear His whisper. Now you know the ministry assignment God’s given you. You’re excited and eager to get started, but like my late wife and I, you may ask, “OK. Now what do I do?”

I’ve worked with some believers, so excited about their calling that they can’t wait to tell their spouse the news. “Honey, God’s told me my calling so we’re going to sell the house, pack up our things, and head off on an adventure.” Predictably, their spouse is less excited about the adventure than their counterpart.

I know some people who believe that God’s calling them to quit their job, head off to seminary, and become a pastor. They can’t wait to tell the boss, “Take this job and shove it.” That’s probably not the wisest thing to do.

My suggestion is to slow down and talk to your spouse, your closest friends, and your pastor about the calling you believe God’s given you. Proverbs 15:22 states, “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” It is vitally important to receive counsel from the people who care about you the most, and those most affected by your calling.

Here are some suggested Next Steps as you begin to plan for the future:

HOME
What do you and your spouse need to discuss?
Does your spouse agree with and support your calling?
How will your calling affect your family?
What are some potential obstacles?

CHURCH
Which ministry at your church serves your Audience?
Which ministry outside your church may better fit for your calling?
Whom should to talk to at church or elsewhere about this ministry?

WORK
Does your career align with your calling?
How important is it to you that it does align?
Can you continue your career and still pursue your calling?
What are some potential obstacles?

Take your time. Confirm your calling. Seek advice. Make plans – and move out!

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