To The Core: How To Identify Your Core Values (3)

Core values are the basic truths and fundamental beliefs that you cherish. They operate in the background, but greatly influence you actions and attitudes, perceptions and decisions.

What are YOUR core values? In this final post in this series we’ll list some typical core values, recognizing that it’s impossible to name them all. No definitions are provided because each person interprets the term in a slightly different way.

Use the questions from earlier posts to zero in on your 3-5 core values. You may wish to start by choosing up to 10 core values before narrowing your list down to the 3-5 that are truly “core.”

Remember that your core values aren’t what you wish were true; rather, these values are what’s actually true in your life. Moreover, don’t choose values because you think you “should.” For example, you may be tempted to choose the core value of “love.” After all, who wouldn’t be in favor of love? But is love really influencing your attitudes and actions, perspectives and decisions?

Listed below are core values that people frequently list:

Achievement Freedom Knowledge Reputation
Adventure Friendship Learning Respect
Authenticity Fulfillment Legacy Security
Balance Generosity Life Self-control
Beauty Gentleness Love Self-worth
Change Goodness Loyalty Sensitivity
Character Gratitude Mercy Service
Commitment Growth Nobility Simplicity
Compassion Healing Peace Spirituality
Cooperation Honesty Perfection Tolerance
Courage Honor Perseverance Transformation
Creativity Hope Possessions Trust
Empowerment Humility Potential Truth
Excellence Impact Power Understanding
Experiences Inner Peace Prayer Unity
Fairness Integrity Prestige Wealth
Faith Intimacy Privilege Wholeness
Faithfulness Joy Purity Wisdom
Fame Justice Purpose [your choice]
Forgiveness Kindness Relationships [your choice]

Principles
Core values are critical; but your core values will have little power or influence in your life unless you tie them to a principle. A principle expresses a core value as a duty, a right, or a belief that is so important that it must be adhered to without question or hesitation.

Your principles serve as guidelines for making life decisions. For example, the core value of integrity may be formulated into the principle: “I am honest and tell the truth.” The core value of Cooperation could be stated as this principle: “I work with others for the good of all.”

May God use the core values in your life to bless others in a powerful way. May others see these core values operating in your life and recognize that the Source of their power lies in a close relationship with the Lord. Amen.

Dr. Steve Lake is a retired educator with over 30 years experience in the American public schools. He has served in a variety of position, including teacher, elementary school principal, junior high principal, Associate Superintendent, retired from public education as Superintendent of Schools in Lincolnwood, IL. He has his Bachelors, Masters and Doctor of Education degrees from Northern Illinois University. For the past 25 years Steve has attended and been a member of Willow Creek Community Church in South Barrington and Northfield, IL. At Willow Creek Steve has taught adult classes on spiritual gifts, life purpose, and spiritual disciplines. He has ministered overseas in Angola, Zambia, Honduras, Germany, and Russia. Steve is co-founder of Designed to Serve, a ministry that equips Christians to live out their unique God-given calling. Steve is married and has two adult children who are married.